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Black bourgeois mothers are similar to Jewish mothers in that they’re always pushing you to marry a doctor or a lawyer. My mother was no exception.

Although she never met my ex-boyfriend, she assured me that she didn’t have any problem with him being white. That being said, merely weeks after my break up she called me to tell me that a retired schoolteacher friend of hers has a son.

He’s a doctor. A black doctor with “Good hair” (her words not mine). And he’s adult friend finder single. And he’s due to be in London for a medical conference. And it would be such a “big favor” if I showed him around the city on Saturday.

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I tried to weasel my way out of it but then she laid a guilt trip on me about forgetting mother’s day last year. In my defence it’s a different day in the UK than the US!

So I spent Saturday showing adult club DeShawn around the west end. DeShawn was 6 feet, good body, “good hair”, perfect teeth. His skin was a few shades darker than mine. He was courteous, polite and well-spoken.

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He was 39, divorced with 1 child. He specialized in internal medicine and lived just outside Atlanta. He went to Howard and Johns Hopkins. And despite his penchant for Tyler Perry movies, he had a cool personality as well. On paper, he looked excellent, but I just didn’t feel that spark of attraction.

I think, in some ways, I was/ I am still pining for my ex. The ex, by the way, I heard in in hospital with swine flu. I’ve been debating on whether or not to go visit him.

I digress, so DeShawn had the whole package. Looks, good job, manners. The thing about DeShawn that seemed really weird was that he was just SO NORMAL. There was nothing weird about him. He didn’t seem to have and weird hang-ups. Even his divorce ended amicably. He’s on good terms with his ex-wife and good singles dating friends with her new husband.

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DeShawns life is all about smooth seas and calm waters. I, however, am like hurricane Katrina. I will fuck your shit up if you get too close to me.

Maybe he will be the one that got away? I’m sure, however, there will be some sista out there who will be very happy in free dating to meet him. He claimed that he has trouble finding smart intelligent black women. But surely Atlanta is buzzing with them, no?

I dunno, DeShwan seemed to be a good guy after a relationship. At this moment, I’m not the type of girl looking for a relationship. But I just didn’t have the heart to tell my mother that right now, I only want to fuck.

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