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Sadly, you need to accept that sometimes no matter how much you enjoyed the SUCCEEDING DATE, it’s not going to lead to another.

Some people are obsessed with looks and unless you’re a pin-up type, they are unlikely to date you again. Other adult friend finder are obsessed with marriage so it will spell the end when you say you don’t want to get hitched till you’re at least 40.But in most cases, when the first date goes well there are lots of ways you can increase your chances of a second date.

One of the most important rules (and sadly, it is sexist) is that the guy should ask for the next date. I know it sounds really out-dated but according to the experts it’s the only way to go. Next, never have or ask for sex on a first meeting.  If you’re a woman, it gives the impression that you’re too “easy” and if you think you’re a gentleman, asking for sex when you first meet contradicts that.

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Some people say there should be no physical contact at all and if you’re both over 25, then you might feel more comfortable in adult dating with following that rule but lots of younger singles think it’s natural to at least kiss. Don’t let the first date go on for too long.  Even if the evening has gone well and you seem made for each other, don’t stay out till the wee hours swapping life stories.

That way, there will still be a little mystery left for the second date and your partner will remember the night as a fun time. You need to make sure the other person knows you have a character so don’t go along with every suggestion they make for where to go and what to eat and drink.

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If your partner raves about a band that you absolutely loathe, be polite and concede they’re really popular but don’t pretend that you love them too. Don’t go Dutch on a first date. Again, this can seem old-fashioned but research shows that most women still prefer a man who settles the bill and most men feel much happier doing that.

If a man acts like a gentlemen and holds open a door, hands you a drink or helps with your coat, make sure to say thank you  EVERY time. In surveys of annoying things about first dates, many men say they hate it when findsomeone doesn’t show any manners.

Women on the other hand say one of the biggest turn-offs for them is when a man can’t resist following an attractive woman across the room with his eyes. So guys, give your date your undivided attention and don’t be tempted to ogle anyone else! If you’re shy or first dates make you so nervous that you can’t make decent conversation, make sure you tell the other person.

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Better to admit to nerves than have them think you’re boring. Guys can even use it to introduce a possible second internet personals date. This could go along the lines of, I get shy with new people but I’m different when you get to know me.  Suggest that next time you could go ice-skating/cycling/enter a pub quiz together.

If one person is too quiet, the other might panic at the thought of having to carry all the conversation next time too – but an activity date would take off the pressure.

Of course some people over-talk when they are nervous so if that’s you, make sure you give the other person time to talk. Another problem with people who over-talk is that they often start confiding their ‘little secrets’.

If not, just let the conversation move onto something else and wait for the next opportunity. If a new art show is opening in town next week, say you’re planning to go along and if she’s free it would be great to meet up there.

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This entry was posted on Monday, March 22nd, 2010 at 6:27 am and is filed under Dating Service, Internet Dating Personals, Online Adult Dating, Online Dating Service, UK dating, dating and match making, dating tips free, easy dating relationship.

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